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If You Don’t Floss in Front of a Mirror, You’ll Get A.D.D.


I have been vindicated!  I have said for a long time that multi-tasking is not good for us.  Long ago, I prided myself on juggling tasks and thinking for others, etc.  As the years went on, I realized I was losing the ability to multi-task.  Now I know why.

In recent years, we have been told how the brain begins to shut down.  We can’t really focus on several things at once – some even say that we can’t focus on more than one thing at a time. We think we can, but our brain has already left the first task to focus on the second one. We are going back and forth at best.

Admittedly, there are various opinions and comments about this topic.  Some are saying that we can multi-task in a limited way – perhaps 2 tasks, but not 3.  (See links below for more about the topic.)

We do too much and we don’t focus enough. We are not “in the moment” very often. 

It’s strange to say we do too much, because a lot this multi-tasking prevents real accomplishment.  We are busy, busy, busy but we could accomplish more by focusing on one task and giving it our full attention. That would also add quality to many of the things we do.

When our work or family requires multiple thoughts and actions, we really are not focusing on all of it at the same time. We focus on one or two things at one time. The remainder of the time, we are going back and forth.  The “back and forth” can fool us.

The number of warnings we see daily about our lifestyles affecting our concentration are overwhelming – but many of them are true and we should pay attention.

First, we are overwhelmed with stimuli; then we are overwhelmed by the warnings.

For years, we worried about the effects of too much television on children. Now we have to worry about many electronic devices – and the effects are bad for kids as well as adults.  We see that all the electronics are not just distracting; they actually make it harder to focus even when we have finished with the electronic device!

This increasing inability to focus is a kind of “tech A.D.D.”  (I’m not criticizing people with a diagnosed medical condition. They don’t easily have the choices we have.)

To revisit being “in the moment,” I’ll return to the thought reflected in the title.

Flossing our teeth is a good example.  We *can* walk around or leave the mirror and still floss our teeth but it won’t be as good. Try it and you’ll see that, standing in front of the mirror and focusing on doing it thoroughly and carefully is easier.  If we walk around and interrupt it to do something else with our hands, we don’t really know if we have been thorough and we certainly aren’t as careful. (Never mind the issue of unsanitary hands...)

There is more to this than being careful not to tear the gums or be thorough so we don’t miss a spot.  There is something else we need as humans:  a beginning, middle, and an end.  Too many of our tasks are ongoing. We never experience that feeling of a job well done or even done at all!  Flossing can end and be a job well done in a very short time.  We get a sense of satisfaction from that experience.

Now apply the same principle to your work, your reading, your studying, even your daydreaming. 

I’ve rambled a bit to cover different points I wanted to make but it’s hard to focus on so many points at once.  I had to, ahem, prove my thesis.   

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